‘Working with me is working with & for yourself.’ – Yvo
What is working with me like?
Maybe you visited ‘Testimonials: Meet CFW Success’ and already have an impression of what working with me can look and feel like.
In case you have not, here is a summary of what my clients (10 – 80+) say about me:
- I am kind, easy to talk to, perceptive, genuine, reassuring, enthusiastic and encouraging
- I communicate with care, patience, knowledge, perspective and clarity
- my belief in my clients’ potential for change, progress, growth and success is tangible and contagious
- my coaching manner and style makes them feel respected, happy, safe, looked after, sure, proud and positive
- my gentle manner makes everyone feel welcome, heard and understood
- I connect naturally and easily regardless of age, sex, identity and personality
- I work with laughter, fun and celebrations
My coaching = natural, successful and personal
- I live and work according to my personal & professional values
- I create positive, true and empowering relationships
- I trust my clients’ ability to achieve and my skills to deliver
- I honour teamwork, shape team spirit and inspire team success
Working with heartfelt care, interest and success is my trademark.
My support positively continues to impact my clients’ lives also after coaching co-operation.
Online I appear as I am offline; I do not digitally enhance my looks.
My presence on social media is limited; I do not regularly blog, nor strive to receive likes or increase followers.
My clients all improve their well-being, life-joy and achievement-success rate.
During your coaching with me, you will achieve your targets and make your coaching results part of your daily life & health routine.
Conversations, not sessions
I purposefully call my coaching appointments ‘conversations’ and not ‘sessions’, to highlight that my clients and I work as a team.
In my coaching relationships there is no hierarchy.
My clients and I shape effective co-operation together.
And each unique co-operation, forms the solid foundation for each success.
Success naturally follows from joint focus on reaching and achieving.
Simple, yet not easy
Transformative Life Coaching with me is not a passive activity, nor is it always easy.
Although CFW conversations can feel like talking between friends, they are not like an informal catch up or casual check in.
Each conversation is conscious & active thinking time for you.
Your focused thinking time acts as a motivating catalyst to innovation, progress, change and results.
I give you uninterrupted time to think, focus, ask, reflect, choose, decide and act.
I also give you skilled, astute questioning that supports you to your successful outcomes.
Your invested energy and focus will lead you to celebrating many achievements.
Because the process is creative, it is unpredictable.
This is why during your coaching, you can experience how a goal, emotion or viewpoint positively changes.
You can also encounter unexpected emotions, hurdles and obstacles.
But throughout your conversation, know that: I stay present with you.
Trust that together we arrive at that what you are looking for.
Always.
Whilst we coach together, you will experience different, exciting and creative ways of
- thinking
- seeing
- communicating
- and doing
To work with me, is to feel calm within.
Whilst the world outside might seem volatile, intimidating, manic, overwhelming, scary or hyped-up:
you can expect to achieve together with me.
Not just one focus
There are 100s of different coaches.
These 100s of coaches have equally many different names or titles, such as:
Executive Coaches, Career Coaches, Education Coaches, Relationship Coaches, Positivity Coaches, Trauma Coaches, Neurodivergent Coaches, Weight Loss Coaches, Wellbeing Coaches, Nature Coach, Spiritual Coach – and many more.
Each name or title indicates a certain topic or key focus, like mine: Life Coach.
My life coaching is uniquely wholesome, because it includes all the above coaching titles and topics.
During CFW’s life coaching conversations, you can improve not 1 topic, but all the topics and areas that shape your life from work, career, wealth, sex, relationships, intimacy, health, social, education, study, spiritual, behaviour, communication to mindset.
Life is interconnected.
Which is why my life coaching connects with all topics, events and people.
I will confidently and successfully work with:
- you
- you and your partner or spouse
- you and your child or children
- you and your family
- you and your relationship/s or friendship/s
Working together with me leads to
- less stress, anger and anxiety.
- increased understanding, clarity, effective solutions and strategies.
- more sleep and better quality of sleep.
- managing neurodiversity, burn-out, bullying, depression, anxiety, isolation, emotional hurt, self harm, suicidal thoughts.
- increased organisation, productivity and efficiency at home, work and in business.
- improved time management and planning habits.
- a healthy work-life balance with time for fun, love and leisure.
- improved health, diet, fitness and wellness (e.g. stopping smoking, substance abuse, addictions).
- feeling recharged, motivated, happy and energised.
- reducing eco & climate anxiety and stress related to social and natural events.
- feeling prepared for exams, tests, interviews, promotions.
- transformed mindsets related to life & living, death & dying, ageing & changing
- managing issues and fears related to upbringing, parenting, pregnancy, pre & post-natal, birth, life, family histories and passed-on traumas.
- deeper personal, social & professional connections and relationships.
- improved, clear and effective communication.
- increased whole-person confidence, self esteem, self worth & self belief.
- developing inner wisdom, personal voice and intuition.
- positive ways of thinking, feeling, loving, living and working.
- shaping fresh perspectives to cope with worries about unpredictable future situations related to e.g. financial insecurity, global tension and changing politics.
Magic in action
Sometimes when I talk to people and potential clients about my life coaching, I see raised eyebrows when I describe the process as magic.
Because, although people expect self-work to be challenging, emotional and meaningful – they often do not anticipate that life coaching with me is joyful, uplifting, beautiful, surprising, energising, effective and yes: magical.
It is magical, because it reaches beyond that what was expected.
It is magical, because it reaches and touches the clients’ inner core or Within.
My clients know when this magic happens, because they feel when insights, achievements and outcomes are reached and when positive energy releases.
These releases are described as: adrenaline rush, tinglings, goosebumps, deep silence, peace or calm within.
Coaching magic happens when mind, body and voice connect into a joint ‘Wow!’
My clients and I call these ‘Wow’ experiences Magic Moments, because it best describes their electrifying intuitively inspired insights.
During Magic Moments, deep, pure and real permanent transformation happens.
Because I do not use a formula, handbook nor a script, these moments are truly magical experiences for my clients.
Magic Moments are spontaneous, intuitive and unpredictable.
Magic Moments naturally allow what is emerging to become crystal clear.
During Magic moments there is no space for fear, doubt and limitations.
Believe
Magic Moments signal a boundary shifting life enhancing insight for my clients, such as:
- recognising a limiting or destructive habit or thought pattern
- facing an obstructive or outdated fear, belief, mindset, self script or perspective
- acknowledging the empowerment, power and impact of thoughts, words and intuition
- feeling and being one with oneself: thinking, speaking, choosing & creating freely from & for oneself
- feeling a change take place, a different feeling come over, or new knowledge or insights ‘land’
Change and impact
When you work with me, you can accept that in life we all experience
- highs and lows
- happiness and depression
- joy and sadness
- losses and gains
- successes and mistakes
You also can understand and accept that you can change and impact your circumstances.
So, let’s create some impact :))
Clients looking back on their CFW journies
With tons of pride and joy I refer you to Testimonials: Meet CFW Success, where some of my clients share their observations and experiences.
Every time I think of my clients’ extraordinary growths, I smile :))
Whether they met with me once, a few times, or many times:
every one of my clients has refreshed their thinking and mindsets, improved their lives and their ways of living.
And they, in turn, positively impact the lives of those around them.
You too can enjoy this experience.
You too can shape and impact your every day and your tomorrow.
You too can enjoy your life, work, business, relationships – your living as a whole – much more personally, confidently & fully.
Meet Lion Tamer Lara
Amazing Lara shares looking back over her year of change and growth.
From shy to outspoken.
From struggling to making things happen.
From depressing, lost, suicidal dark places to experiencing choice, strength and freedom.
‘When we find perspective, we find clarity and calm.
Then choices, solutions and progress follow’ – Yvo